TANGO! It Takes Two

8 Feb
Two ballroom dancers practicing in their studio

This is what it looks like when I’m dancing…in my dreams

I love to dance.  So many kinds of dance I’ve enjoyed – ballet, jazz, lyrical, club, two-step and so on.  But I’ve never done the Tango.  It sounds exciting, intriguing, perhaps even…dangerous.  I do know one thing about the tango, and that is, as the saying goes, “it takes two”.  It’s not something you can do by yourself.

Neither is writing.

But all I want is time to myself so I can writeyou say.  Make the world go away for a little while, so I can write, I beg of you!

I sympathize.  Believe me, I do. But even when we are alone writing, we are not alone.  If we are writing something we actually want someone to read someday, then there is always one other person present.  Our dear reader.  Is our writing not a dance with our reader?

One of my writing challenges is pacing. This month, I’m going to think about dancing with my reader.  Am I leading them with a quick enough stride here, a slow enough pace there to catch their breath, a pause just…long…enough…to…create anticipation? I love it when that perfect tension is created with a dance partner.  That is what I need to create with my reader.

I think I’m ready to TANGO!  How about you?

5 Responses to “TANGO! It Takes Two”

  1. Christy February 8, 2013 at 1:22 pm #

    This post gave me chills. It’s so true — we really are never alone when we sit down to write. I always feel like all that I’ve learned from my writer’s group is there with me, too.

    • pursuingthemuse February 8, 2013 at 10:36 pm #

      Thanks, Christy. I’m sitting down to TANGO! now. 🙂

  2. Wenona Morning Star Gardner February 9, 2013 at 2:12 am #

    Reblogged this on Wenona Morning Star Gardner and commented:
    I had a vision of myself as a dancer!

    • charmingthemuse February 9, 2013 at 10:05 am #

      Thanks for the share, Wenona. You ARE a dancer–metaphorically and otherwise! I began ballet at 31 and went on pointe at 33. It’s never too late to play at something new!

  3. ticklingthemuse February 13, 2013 at 1:29 am #

    I love this! We are dancing with our readers. Beautifully said! And I wish I looked like that when I was dancing instead of Minnie Pearl, lol!

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